SuperJuls Flies: How to cope with the loss of a child

Momtality’s note: Three years ago I was a by-stander on a journey that I never expected.  I met Sara 6 years ago through mutual friends when we were both new divorcees.  We quickly bonded over happy hours, girls vacations and eventually family trips.  She has three boys and I had three girls and they quickly … More SuperJuls Flies: How to cope with the loss of a child

Tips to Minimize Your Kids’ Fighting

Siblings love each other, they hate each other, they hate to love each other, they love to hate each other but here is the truth, they are STUCK with each other. So I get a text from my sister-in-law asking for tips on how to stop the kids from fighting, but here is the thing…you … More Tips to Minimize Your Kids’ Fighting

The Memory Keepers

Your siblings are your constant.  They are that friend you may not want, but you know you need.  But more importantly they are your memory keepers.  My children (and obviously my stepchildren) are survivors of divorce.  They travel back and forth from house to house, and have had to deal with their parents dating and … More The Memory Keepers